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Cake day: November 10th, 2023

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  • I’ve experienced in relationships that it doesn’t matter if it is budgeting for a startup or if it is saving for retirement or if it budgeting for college courses or if it is budgeting to pay the electricity bill on the day the bills are due to be paid.

    In some relationships with a narcissist, all of the above is considered to NOT be paying the price that she is worth it for everybody around her to pay. Especially you.

    I’d try to identify if she believes you are spending “her” money and “her” time. Unfortunately, the was a culture created by content for only women to watch on TV and the internet.

    If it is just simply a matter of her expectations for you to “pay the price that she is worth it for you to pay” then you might be in a situation that is not very much unlike what a pimp does to his prostitututes. If she is a vampire, then you should be able to figure it out.


  • This is probably unnecessary. But I created an LLC in my state and defined ownership among majority managing member partner and minority members. At this time, there is still unclaimed ownership reserved for additional investment and recruitment. So I have been carrying “unspent” ownership percentages that can be used to bring people in for years.

    The single member who holds 51% can’t be outvoted. So never put yourself less than 51%. You can refuse to buy out anybody who wants to cash out their ownership, but it is a smart move to say they can’t sell their percentage for 5 years. You have 49% ownership to bring in talent and investment. And you will always be the boss.

    You friends will have a legal recourse if you try to cheat them, so a piece of ownership is a good way to give them confidence you are not just trying to cheat them out of their labor.