I own a house and two vehicles and have a fairly decent amount of assets. BUT IM DEPRESSED AND NEED TO WORK. I don’t “need” to work clearly. BUT I need a purpose. I have no desire to work for someone else again because honestly, I don’t need to. But I cannot keep doing nothing forever. Since leaving the military I have been a realtor (not my thing), a personal trainer and nutrition coach. Didn’t have fun doing that. I can start a business or take over a business. I can really do whatever I want. But I have no idea. I have traveled almost all of Europe, Australia, New Zealand, Asia, the Middle East, etc. So traveling is not what I want to do either.
I understand I am very fortunate to be making this much money a month. That being said I need direction and motivation in life. HELP!
What is your degree major? What is your passion 🤔, and that for others? What is your end-goal? I am retired AF.
Why not find a hobby you love like woodworking or metalworking, leather working or so many others. Take some classes and just create stuff you love.
Eventually people will start loving your work when it gets to a certain level and will be willing to pay you for it.
Find a problem you’re motivated to solve. You can’t find problems doing nothing, so challenge yourself until you hit a wall. Talk to people and listen to them complain.
Find a gap in the market
How are you able to do all of the exercising, travelling, work etc if you are 100% permanently and totally disabled? Sincerely. My father couldn’t get military total disability even though he got shot in both knees in vietnam and had such debilitating PTSD that he couldnt work, abandoned his entire family and drank/did drugs to cope with it all. And he had a PhD that he never used due to the ptsd. Seriously, I appreciate your service but just wondering how that is possible when other veterans get near to nothing? Sounds like your at least moderately capable if you want to own/run a business.
VA Rating System. It’s changed over the years. But it also depends on how/what you claim. I feel for your father. It makes me sad and angry as Veteran myself.
I talk to a lot of older generation vets and what I have summarized is this: 1) They don’t claim. 2) They don’t know how to make a claim or that they even could, 3) They don’t fight the process to get what by law they are entitled to. 4) They have ZERO record of ailments being associated with Military Service. 5) Arrogance/ Hard headedness.
Long story short; much like our country and its government, the VA has changed over time. The old timers paved the way for the more younger generation of Veterans to receive the care and benefits they did not necessarily receive. I thank and respect them for that each and every day.
Either way VA is still shit. But it’s a bit better type of shit than back in the day. The Medical Community as a whole has also come a long way in its understanding of mental trauma as well (PTSD), and lots of other ailments and injuries and how they affect daily life; and VA ratings reflect this.
Keep in mind even today you can be an amputee and only get max 40% for that amputation; it’s all the secondary claims due to that amputation that will put you at a 100. Kinda fucked up if you ask me.
Everyone in the military was exposed to small arms fire at one point. Tinnitus gets you 10%. Every veteran reading this needs to understand that! Get what you are Legally Entitled to Vets!
I have a friend who fought hard, was hard headed, knew what he was owed, and eventually got scraps.
Dealt with a lot of drug issues, and ended up with a record easier than any help from the VA or any vet programs. Unfortunately he’s no longer with us. He battled with suicide for nearly a decade, and eventually lost that battle. I’m glad you found help within the system, I just wish my friend had better luck on his journey.
Volunteer!! Or work at a non-profit. Adding value to others is a great purpose
You got time and money. Look into a program or schooling for something that might interest you. Take a few different classes. Computer IT? Healthcare careers? Counseling? World is your oyster regardless of your age.
What are you passionate about? You’re in a very special situation. Since you don’t HAVE to work, you can follow passion. Passion CAN pay bills, but in your case it doesn’t HAVE to.
Another option is volunteering. Help people in need.
To be “making” that much money per month? That’s the whole problem, you’re not making it.
Why don’t you buy military surplus fix it and sell it…. Keeps a connection got mix of physical mental and social work…
Grow some stuff. Especially if money is a fuck it thing… Bansai trees and what not really get me going
I’d look into GovCon and see if you live in a HUBZone and be a wholesale supplier for the Government. Just janitorial supplies or something simple.
OR write a book or five.
Big brother comes to mind and Codie Sanchez , https://www.codiesanchez.com/ , might have a message you find interesting
Get a routine
Since you are financially stable , and if you want to help others , now is the time
Become a handyman or become a big brother … you have military background , that means you can be instructor or leader in youth center
Helps others , pay it forward
What type of disability allows you to pursue whatever you want including being a personal trainer?