It’s your giveaway you can do whatever you want.

Or just have everyone enter and pick a winner within your chosen area.

Whenever I do giveaways it’s “random” but I tend to choose positive people who would benefit from receiving the items, and a bonus is if they tend to leave reviews for other people.

I don’t like doing actually random giveaways because I feel they’re pointless. I want people to benefit from my product or make the best use out of it as possible. An added bonus is if they have a higher chance of telling other people.

Sometimes I do mushroom (food) giveaways on reddit and my winners are always people who post in r/poor or the budget subreddits etc., for example. I choose them regularly over people who have posted photos of their own grows, hauls, or if they seem very well off. Single moms, single dads, genuinely good people etc. are heavily prioritized.

It’s my stuff and I’m paying shipping, I’ll do what I want 🤷‍♂️

She’s threatening to sue as a way of bullying you into giving a refund.

See what UPS says with their investigation.

If she opens a chargeback, provide your bank or payment processor with copies of the results of said investigation.

It’s my understanding the UPS DIAD scanner logs GPS coordinates too. So it’s not as if this would be some other person’s porch.

It is entirely possible someone snatched it off her porch tho. She could be telling the truth. In which case she needs to file a police report and provide police with door cam footage. Whenever I think someone is scamming me like this, I offer to cooperate with their local law enforcement for prosecuting theft. The scammers always disappear when I say that.

Etsy, FB Marketplace and IG are all very good places for this.