How do you deal with family and friends who wants discounts? I own a small cookie business. I make about $200-$300 per order for my work so these aren’t cheap cookies. I get family members and friends sometimes messaging me to do custom cookies for them for events for such a small (basically just covering my expenses without making me any money at all) amount or sometimes I feel they even expect it for free and it’s really awkward for me to tell them my actual pricing because I know they won’t spend the money. However, my time is valuable and making these orders is very time consuming - time I can be working on another order that’ll bring me a lot more money.

So, how do you deal and gently tell them “no” or “it’ll cost you XY amount” which would be pretty much the same as any other client? I have done a few free orders for close family and friends and a few really cheap ones but I’m done with this. I’m busting my ass for nothing.

  • Winter-Box808@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    I’m a mobile auto detailer OP and if anyone in my family wants their cars cleaned I tell them they have to come to me and they’re buying lunch or dinner and zero of them have taken me up on the offer.

    Personally, I wouldn’t be too worried about pissing off family. If they have no respect for you and your work, you shouldn’t have respect for them.

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      10 months ago

      This. They aren’t asking for you to bake cookies for fun, they want them for their for profit endeavors. Why not ask to get a cut on their profits