I fired someone for the first time today. This person was the first I hired and was with me for 18 months. It was a hard decision and probably months overdue. She didn’t take it well and ended up threatening me. The close friendship we had feels fake. I helped her in her times of need so many times and feel taken advantage of.

I couldn’t sleep last night and feel sick. I’ve done nothing wrong. I understand looking back at former bosses why they kept their distance. It’s just my nature to want to get close to employees because it’s a small business and we are together so many hours a week. Any words of advise from my fellow small business owners?

  • Halloween2022@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    I made this same mistake as a theatre producer. Thought I had genuine friends, they were just friendly with me to get roles or their projects done.

    Never become friends with employees, or hire friends.