I have a bit of a conundrum. I have had an employee for close to 2 and a half years. He had been what any boss could want in an employee. He has been on top of everything. He has done everything I ask him to and then some. This employee is also a schizophrenic and has a slew of other mental health problems. I knew this going in as we are also friends and he lives on my property,Friends until recently. I’m unsure what has happened but as of late his mental health has been rapidly declining. Such as he use to show up at the store early, clean without being asked, give me contact info for vendors. Now the only things I have him do are clean and file. All the thing he use to do before, he started not doing or doing a very poor job. He also has completely made it to where I had to redo inventory because it was so wrong. I have lost money sleep clients and sanity because of this drastic change. But one of the reasons that I hired him was because not alot of people would because of mental heath issues. I’m now at a point that I understand that people have challenges and I feel guilty at the thought of firing him because where else will he go. I’m the only job in the area that would hire him give him the breaks he needs and be as patience as I have been. And I know this for a fact I’m the only job he’s had that has accommodated him. I’m at a place where I have given him several chances to fix and adjust and he has not done so consistently. He does better for a few days or matey even a few days but always ends up back in the same place. So now I’m in this place where he’s unpleasant to be around and I don’t know if I would be doing the right thing by firing him. I don’t what to be unethical or a shitty person by firing him. Would I be the asshole if I fired him?

  • iamemperor86@alien.topB
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    10 months ago

    You’re doing yourself and your business a disservice. Unless you’re already a multi millionaire with a clear retirement path, you’d better lose this guy and look out for your self. That sounds shitty but as a failed business owner because I was “too nice”, I’m telling you get your shit together and run your place like a business and not a charity.

    This guy is lying to doctors, he’s probably lying to you. He’s off his meds or lost interest. If he’s not looking out for himself, you can’t help him. He needs to be honest with the people who can help him, you and the doctors. Until he helps himself, others can’t.

    Stop losing clients and money over this. At a 6K loss, you could have housed and fed the guy instead.