I assume you mean you just want to be self sustaining, be able to afford rent, utilities, food, all the things you need to survive plus a little more so you can have a life as well?

I would need more information about you to advise you. How old are you? Do you have a job now? Do you have a career or anything you love that could lead to a career?

I grew up in a house and a community that, for various reasons, go out of their way to HIDE any wealth to avoid the appearance of showing off. This can cause some psychological issues as well…but growing up that way it’s strange to see people who just want to APPEAR wealthy even if they aren’t. It’s the complete opposite. 😂