I run a modestly successful small gardening business. It took me a year to really get it going properly. For context im in my 30s and have worked in really demanding jobs to get into a position to start something.

Ever since I went full-time my sibling has had this attitude like I just won the lottery and wont share. Other people have also started acting like im driving around in a RollsRoyce with a monocle, I don’t really get it.

I give my sibling left over gardening supplies and i’ve sub contracted another friend who lost their job. Trying to share my success when I can. Whats with the hostility? Have other people experienced this kind of thing?

  • bobby_pablo@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    It’s called “projecting”. They are projecting all their internal fears anxieties insecurities onto you subconsciously through these things they say and do.

    It’s just human nature. I don’t hold it against them, but I also choose to not spend time with them. I need all the positive energy I can get to move the business forward. Dangerous to allow myself to be around excess negativity.