I run a modestly successful small gardening business. It took me a year to really get it going properly. For context im in my 30s and have worked in really demanding jobs to get into a position to start something.

Ever since I went full-time my sibling has had this attitude like I just won the lottery and wont share. Other people have also started acting like im driving around in a RollsRoyce with a monocle, I don’t really get it.

I give my sibling left over gardening supplies and i’ve sub contracted another friend who lost their job. Trying to share my success when I can. Whats with the hostility? Have other people experienced this kind of thing?

  • girlwhoweighted@alien.topB
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    1 year ago

    Not as an owner myself, but growing up my parents were small business owners. It wasn’t so bad in elementary school because I went to a private school but once I started public school people were absolutely convinced that we must be rolling in money because our last name was on a building. I can promise you over and over again that that was not even close to the case. My mom lived in a constant state of anxiety that at any minute we could lose everything.

    I got all kinds of s***. I think the craziest was this guy in high school who was adamant that I couldn’t be into punk rock music or the scene because we were probably just way too wealthy and upper class. So I found it quite humorous when junior year his mom bought a house just a couple doors down from us. When he became my neighbor was about when he shut up.