I run a modestly successful small gardening business. It took me a year to really get it going properly. For context im in my 30s and have worked in really demanding jobs to get into a position to start something.

Ever since I went full-time my sibling has had this attitude like I just won the lottery and wont share. Other people have also started acting like im driving around in a RollsRoyce with a monocle, I don’t really get it.

I give my sibling left over gardening supplies and i’ve sub contracted another friend who lost their job. Trying to share my success when I can. Whats with the hostility? Have other people experienced this kind of thing?

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    10 months ago

    40 years ago, my grandfather said to me:

    “You’re never be criticized by someone doing better than you”

    This is one of his sayings that I’ve found to be true as I’ve lived my life.

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      10 months ago

      You’ve never had someone doing better than you, criticize you? Lucky.

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        10 months ago

        “It’s not that I’m doing better than you, it’s just that I AM better than you.” - People that be like that sometimes.

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        10 months ago

        No.

        I’ve had them mentor me and guide me, but nothing I would classify as criticizing.