I used to enjoy hanging out with my childhood buddies, but now my goals have changed and When I’m with them, I feel like I’m not growing. They smoke and drink, and none of them are really motivated. I want to be around people who can help me learn and grow.
Someone said it so true “you’re sum of 5 people , you spend your time with “
Any advice where should i look out for people who have some bigger goals Cause in my college also more or less everyone is same .
They do too. As in, motivated and ambitious people hang out with other motivated and ambitious people. Make yourself so that others like that want to hang out with you.
I know this might sound rather unhelpful but accepting this is step one.
Hang out with your colleg friends who have achieve their goals so as to motivate you