I really think you guys and what this sub encourages are awesome. I really admire entrepreneurs, but have realized I would like to get out of this as it’s not something I want to do. I started a super early on startup with another friend. At first I thought Id like it, but realize I don’t have the passion he does.
We’ve been working for months. He clearly lives and breathes for this startup. Working around the clock. He’s talking about jumping ship from our full time jobs to do this. If he had a as passionate replacement for me, I’m sure they’d make much more progress. I don’t want to quit my job for this. I’m stressed out of my mind though that I’m going to lose a friend as my skillset is important. Any recommendations on my best attempt at leaving amicably? I’m tired of losing sleep over this and continuing on. How do I approach this and bring it up?
This doesn’t have to end your friendship. It’s time to have an honest talk with your friend. Tell him exactly what you wrote here.
Emphasize how much you value his friendship and that there are options - that you can work through together. You could continue to provide that valuable skill set but on a limited basis and with the understanding that you would no longer be a part owner, that he might find a replacement. You could help to actually find that replacement. You could discuss ways to develop alternatives.
It’s much better you realize this issue now and deal with it together than if you ignore it and let things detonate at a later, critical stage.